Relationship Potential Reading: individual capacity for love
Relationship Potential Reading: individual capacity for love
Could this relationship or crush be ‘the one’? Explore its potential with the help of the stars. Delve into each individual’s capacity for love — and see what kind of sparks are created by the two of you together. Plus: special hints on how to turn up the heat! This reading is for two people.
Celebrity Example: Relationship Potential Reading (Birth Time)
 Paul Newman
Born: Cleveland, Ohio, USA
January 26, 1925 6:30 AM AND Joanne Woodward
Born: Thomasville, Georgia, USA
February 27, 1930 4:00 AMÂ
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You require a sensitive, sympathetic partner who is extremely expressive emotionally and, at the same time, perceptive enough to understand that you can love deeply and be unflinchingly loyal without being overly demonstrative. You need a lot of parenting. When you don’t have a partner (or an audience), it may sometimes seem to you that your deepest feelings become inaccessible.Â
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Paul Newman
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Joanne Woodward
Birth Data for Paul Newman:Â
Paul Newman
January 26, 1925
6:30 AM
Cleveland, OH
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Birth Data for Joanne Woodward:Â
Joanne Woodward
February 27, 1930
4:00 AM
Thomasville, GAÂ Â
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The Psyche and Eros Compatibility Reading
What is it you want to know when you are checking out a romantic relationship? Basically two things. First, you want to understand the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues each person brings to the relationship. In other words, the relationship potential of each person. And then, of course, you want to understand how the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues of one person relate to those of another person in order to see how they would get along. In other words, the compatibility analysis.
The first two sections of the complete Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis describes the relationship potential of each person. Sections 3 and 4 is the compatibility analysis and describes how the two people experience each other and the relationship from the perspective of each person.
The myth of Psyche and Eros is a love story which shows the soul’s longing for — and ultimate attainment of — love.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Data for Paul:Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Data for Joanne:
Sun   6 deg 02 min Aqu           Sun   8 deg 03 min Pis
Moon  1 deg 39 min Pis           Moon 24 deg 52 min Aqu
Merc 13 deg 19 min Cap           Merc 14 deg 18 min Aqu
Venus 14 deg 24 min Cap           Venus 13 deg 05 min Pis
Mars 23 deg 38 min Ari           Mars 16 deg 02 min Aqu
Jup   8 deg 52 min Cap           Jup   7 deg 33 min Gem
Sat  13 deg 42 min Sco           Sat   9 deg 40 min Cap
Uran 19 deg 04 min Pis           Uran  9 deg 30 min Ari
Nept 21 deg 38 min Leo           Nept  2 deg 03 min Vir
Pluto 12 deg 01 min Can           Pluto 17 deg 39 min Can
Asc. 13 deg 05 min Cap           Asc. 11 deg 50 min Cap
MC    8 deg 26 min Sco           MC   29 deg 34 min Lib
2nd  26 deg 03 min Aqu           2nd  18 deg 51 min Aqu
3rd   7 deg 33 min Ari           3rd  27 deg 01 min Pis
5th   1 deg 43 min Gem           5th  25 deg 49 min Tau
6th  21 deg 55 min Gem           6th  18 deg 43 min Gem
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SECTION I:Â How Paul Relates to Other People
Cancer on 7th house cusp
Your natural reserve, strong ambition and rather traditional sense of propriety may keep you from revealing the emotionally needy or vulnerable side of your nature. People who know you only through your work, would probably be surprised if they saw you at home.
You require a sensitive, sympathetic partner who is extremely expressive emotionally and, at the same time, perceptive enough to understand that you can love deeply and be unflinchingly loyal without being overly demonstrative. You need a lot of parenting.
When you don’t have a partner (or an audience), it may sometimes seem to you that your deepest feelings become inaccessible. The nurturing, sensitive qualities of your partner almost serve as a mirror to your emotions, making them easier to express openly.
Joanne creates an emotional nest for you, a safe refuge from the world’s demands. You love to spend time together at home - eating together, listening to music, talking or not talking, just being comfortable. Your greatest need is for emotional intimacy.
Moon, Ruler of 7th house, is in 2nd:
Money is an emotional issue for many people. It is especially so with you and that often has an impact upon your relationships. It becomes the metaphor for many of your issues in that you and your partner may discuss (argue about?) financial matters although the issue is really security or personal values, subtle matters which are not as easy to talk about. Emotionally, you are needier and more dependent than you appear. You may also be rather possessive. Since you prefer to appear more in control, you may lavish gifts and provide a great deal of financial security for those to whom you are close. It’s lovely to be generous — if that is indeed the motive. However, if the basis of your generosity is a desire for control, the anxieties and paranoia this will engender will lead you to unconsciously sabotage the intimacy you so desperately seek. The shared material concerns can be bonding if you share in them equally as collaborators, collectors or advocates of passionately felt values.
Neptune in 7th
Your highest ideals are tested through your relationships. Your partners are either extraordinarily talented, spiritually evolved and sensitive or they are dissolute, escapist and irresponsible. Either way, you are required to make some sort of sacrifice.
One reason you may be so obsessive about your relationships is it’s the one area of your life that isn’t motivated by practical considerations. Even the negative ties help you to connect with the more spiritual side of yourself. You idealize your partners.
Mercury Conjunct Asc. with an orb of less than 1/2 degree
You are extremely verbal and communicative and have no difficulty in making your thoughts and ideas clearly understood. At times, however, you may become a bit glib and use your “gift of gab” as a means of protecting yourself from emotional vulnerability.
Mercury Conjunct Venus with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
Intelligence is sexy to you. If a person you find physically attractive isn’t also bright, verbal and someone you can talk to, you’re not interested. You have a highly developed aesthetic sense and are drawn to people of taste, wit and charm.
Venus Conjunct Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn’t quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others’ appearance.
Mercury Opposition Pluto with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You’re not awfully good at being disagreed with. You delve into matters, think them through thoroughly and expect your conclusions to be universally shared. Flexibility is not your strong suit. No one should try to lie to you or keep things from you. Somehow you ferret out others’ secrets although you keep your own.
Pluto Opposition Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You are not always aware of your own magnetism. Others find you intense and, sometimes, controlling. You have such strong fears of losing relationships that sometimes you imagine that people are turning against you when the opposite is more often true.
Mercury Sextile Saturn with an orb of less than 1 degree
You are extremely well-organized and anyone who isn’t equally so would annoy you. You are also very practical and fond of routine. A madcap type you couldn’t depend on would ultimately make you miserable - no matter how intense the initial emotional attraction.
Venus Sextile Saturn with an orb of less than 1 degree
While you may not be emotionally demonstrative or sentimental, you love deeply, lastingly and loyally. You may be strongly drawn to people either much older or much younger than you are. Love, for you, has always entailed an enormous amount of responsibility.
Jupiter Sextile MC with an orb of less than 1 degree
When you were little, your teachers liked you and when you grew up, your employers liked you. You tend to approach all relationships both personal and professional with an easy assurance. It is important to you that close ties enjoy society’s approval.
Saturn Sextile Asc. with an orb of less than 1 degree
You were not encouraged to be overly expressive when you were a child and as an adult still tend to be somewhat reserved. You often give the impression of being serious or even stern when, in truth, you are simply feeling shy or self-protective.
Mercury Conjunct Jupiter with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Details are not your cup of tea. You are fascinated by philosophy and the world of ideas. You are a great talker and reader and your best companions will be those who share your concepts and ideals. You prefer professional people with a certain flair.
Jupiter Conjunct Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
There is a quality about you people tend to trust. They confide in you and generally feel better in your presence which has a kind of healing quality. Sometimes you tend to draw close relationships who originally came to see you for some sort of help or guidance.
Pluto Trine MC with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Power struggles often enter into your relationships - both personal and professional. You have an innate fear of being dominated owing to your experience with a controlling parent. Strong people fascinate you. You’re a little afraid of people you love.
Mercury Sextile MC with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult.
Venus Sextile Uranus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
There is nothing humdrum about the way that you love. You have a flair for the unusual and the creative and are drawn to those who shun the conventional. You shy away from those who tend to be over-possessive. Your love affairs are also wonderful friendships.
Sun SemiSquare Uranus with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees
You are restless and independent and, no matter how close you become to someone, you always remain your own person and there is a part of yourself you cannot share. You are uncompromisingly true to your convictions which must be shared by those close to you.
Venus Conjunct Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Yours was an indulged childhood with lots of love and lots of cookies. You have a generous nature both emotionally and materially and people are usually pleased to provide you with the love and creature-comforts you both require and cheerfully give.
Saturn Conjunct MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You learned at an early age to be cautious with people in a position of authority. This reserve may also extend to personal relationships with those you may admire or respect. Old parenting issues inevitably infiltrate all of your close relationships.
Sun Square Saturn with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your self-esteem is based less upon what you are in your own or others’ eyes than on what you do. You may become so compulsive about achievement that you cannot relax into a warm, enduring relationship until you have achieved some success in your career.
Moon Trine MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your emotional needs and interests transcend your immediate domestic environment. You abhor the provincial and aspire to participate in something which will be of benefit to many. This is not mere ambition but a passion. You may attract the public eye.
Sun does not aspect Moon
Your parents’ interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.
Sun does not aspect Asc.
People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.
Moon does not aspect Mercury
It’s as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.
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SECTION II:Â How Joanne Relates to Other People
Cancer on 7th house cusp
Your natural reserve, strong ambition and rather traditional sense of propriety may keep you from revealing the emotionally needy or vulnerable side of your nature. People who know you only through your work, would probably be surprised if they saw you at home.
You require a sensitive, sympathetic partner who is extremely expressive emotionally and, at the same time, perceptive enough to understand that you can love deeply and be unflinchingly loyal without being overly demonstrative. You need a lot of parenting.
When you don’t have a partner (or an audience), it may sometimes seem to you that your deepest feelings become inaccessible. The nurturing, sensitive qualities of your partner almost serve as a mirror to your emotions, making them easier to express openly.
Paul creates an emotional nest for you, a safe refuge from the world’s demands. You love to spend time together at home - eating together, listening to music, talking or not talking, just being comfortable. Your greatest need is for emotional intimacy.
Moon, Ruler of 7th house, is in 2nd:
Money is an emotional issue for many people. It is especially so with you and that often has an impact upon your relationships. It becomes the metaphor for many of your issues in that you and your partner may discuss (argue about?) financial matters although the issue is really security or personal values, subtle matters which are not as easy to talk about. Emotionally, you are needier and more dependent than you appear. You may also be rather possessive. Since you prefer to appear more in control, you may lavish gifts and provide a great deal of financial security for those to whom you are close. It’s lovely to be generous — if that is indeed the motive. However, if the basis of your generosity is a desire for control, the anxieties and paranoia this will engender will lead you to unconsciously sabotage the intimacy you so desperately seek. The shared material concerns can be bonding if you share in them equally as collaborators, collectors or advocates of passionately felt values.
Pluto in 7th
There will be at least one relationship in your life which will totally transform it. Its onset will closely follow a major ending or separation from someone else. You can always identify the major phases of your life by the partner of that period.
You exert a powerful influence over others. If you are not comfortable with that side of your nature, you will draw controlling and manipulative partners. You also attract some formidable enemies and rivals. You have strong love/hate relationships.
Sun Square Jupiter with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree
Sometimes you suffer from an excess of enthusiasm and plunge into relationships and projects without seriously considering beforehand the viability of the situation. You are kind, honest and good-humored. Sometimes you’re also a show-off or a know-it-all.
Mercury Conjunct Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
Since you tend to be rather irritable and sharp-tongued at times you require a partner with a sense of humor who is not too thin-skinned. You are bright, curious and restless and enjoy the company of those who are equally high-spirited and enterprising.
Saturn Conjunct Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You were not encouraged to be overly expressive when you were a child and as an adult still tend to be somewhat reserved. You often give the impression of being serious or even stern when, in truth, you are simply feeling shy or self-protective.
Uranus Square Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You are an unusual person and are often perceived as “ahead of your time” in some way. Friendship is very important to you - especially in your love affairs. You don’t like relationships which are overly defined or confining. You must feel free to love.
Moon SemiSquare Saturn with an orb of less than 1 degree
You don’t have as much self-confidence as you appear to have. You long for love and affection but have never felt, since childhood, that you could have it, simply by being. You feel you have to earn it in some way. You like close ties to need and depend on you.
Moon SemiSquare Uranus with an orb of less than 1 degree
You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.
Moon Trine MC with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Your emotional needs and interests transcend your immediate domestic environment. You abhor the provincial and aspire to participate in something which will be of benefit to many. This is not mere ambition but a passion. You may attract the public eye.
Venus Trine Pluto with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
When it comes to love, you are definitely not casual. You yourself may be surprised at the depths of feeling a close relationship brings to the surface. You love deeply and passionately and do not understand people who are incapable of making lasting commitments.
Sun Sextile Saturn with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are serious, responsible, well-organized and protective. You take care of the people to whom you are close and see to it that their practical needs are attended to. For you a relationship is successful when it falls into a comfortable, pleasant routine.
Sun Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You have a strong, confident, expressive personality which inspires confidence in others. You often find yourself in a position of leadership as do your partners who are also dynamic and successful. Your relationships are marked by mutual respect.
Mercury Sextile Uranus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You have an innovative turn of mind and may have a talent for an unusual subject. Your ideas are often considered to be ahead of your time. You can be somewhat impersonal and detached - even with close ties. You need to share controversial ideas with friends.
Venus Sextile Saturn with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
While you may not be emotionally demonstrative or sentimental, you love deeply, lastingly and loyally. You may be strongly drawn to people either much older or much younger than you are. Love, for you, has always entailed an enormous amount of responsibility.
Venus Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn’t quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others’ appearance.
Neptune Sextile MC with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are guided far more by your spiritual ideals than by more material motivations. While intimate ties are important to you, if the other person didn’t share your more cosmic goals, the relationship could not last. Your dreams often become realities.
Moon SemiSquare Asc. with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees
You often feel emotionally misunderstood. You may have learned as a child to hide your true feelings in order to accommodate those around you. As an adult, your outer manner often belies your inner responses more than you may consciously realize or intend.
Sun Conjunct Venus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Most people like you. You form relationships easily but may have some difficulty sustaining them. You tend to project your own ego ideals onto your partner, sometimes at the expense of relating to their needs. For you, admiration is a prerequisite for love.
Sun Opposition Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your father was either over- idealized or he was rejected as a role model. Either way, your concept of what a man should be is not based upon a mortal person, but upon an ideal. This may lead to unrealistic expectations in close personal relationships.
Moon Opposition Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your mother was either over-idealized or rejected as a feminine role model. You did not get a clear sense of who you were as a child and, as a result, may set impossibly high standards for yourself. You tend to be a loner.
Pluto Opposition Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You are not always aware of your own magnetism. Others find you intense and, sometimes, controlling. You have such strong fears of losing relationships that sometimes you imagine that people are turning against you when the opposite is more often true.
Venus Square Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You may be overly self-indulgent and inclined toward excesses of eating, drinking, sex or anything which gives you pleasure. You would not be comfortable with someone who was too reserved. You can be quite extravagant both emotionally and financially.
Mercury Trine Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You have a quality people trust and you are often sought after as a confidante or an advisor. You have high moral and ethical standards and it is imperative that anyone you’re close to is a person of the highest integrity. You prefer well-educated people.
Moon Conjunct Mars with an orb between 8 and 10 degrees
Your love-hate relationship with your mother has led to an emotional ambivalence in current close ties. You are, at once, very needy and very angry about your neediness. This may make you somewhat cantankerous at times. You are very quick-tempered.
Sun does not aspect Moon
Your parents’ interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.
Moon does not aspect Mercury
It’s as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.
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SECTION III:Â The Relationship from Paul’s Point of View
Paul, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Joanne, and explores some of the major issues that arise.
Your Moon Oppos Joanne’s Neptune (orb < 1 deg)
Watch out for illusion. You have a tendency to over romanticize and idealize Joanne. The truth is you don’t see each other very clearly. Emotionally, you may find this relationship quite confusing. Try not to be vulnerable to deception or flattery.
Your MC Trine Joanne’s Sun (orb < 1 deg)
You admire Joanne and enjoy doing things together. Joanne’s natural vitality helps you both to identify and pursue life goals and directions since you share them. This would be a productive professional tie. You wouldn’t mind if Joanne played the leader.
Your Mercury Sextile Joanne’s Venus (orb < 1 deg)
You are especially responsive to the way Joanne loves and expresses affection. You also share many of the same values and tastes. You love and have an aesthetic appreciation of Joanne’s looks, personal style and creativity. You genuinely like each other.
Your Asc. Sextile Joanne’s Venus (orb < 1 deg)
The attraction between the two of you is very powerful. Your physical being personifies all that Joanne finds most attractive and you feel Joanne’s warmth, sensuality and affection in a very palpable way. You find the same things - and each other - beautiful.
Your Mercury Conj Joanne’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne tends to intimidate you and you don’t like to express ideas which are in disagreement. Even when you know you are right, you wind up feeling wrong. You often feel that Joanne misinterprets your ideas and doesn’t understand you.
Your Mercury Conj Joanne’s Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)
Sharing ideas is a very important element of your relationship. From the beginning, you sensed Joanne was someone you could talk to, who would understand you and, even when you disagreed, would provide a good sounding board for pet theories or business schemes.
Your Venus Conj Joanne’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
This is a serious relationship. Joanne inspires in you the kind of love and respect which makes you want to live up to the standards you both share. This could never be just a casual love affair. It either becomes committed or it ends. You admire strength.
Your Venus Conj Joanne’s Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)
There is something about the way Joanne looks and behaves which charms and captivates you. You were attracted from the first meeting. Perhaps you even fell in love a little. Joanne may represent a private fantasy.
Your Asc. Conj Joanne’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
This could never be a casual relationship. Joanne may grant you a certain authority while unconsciously resenting the very parenting role Joanne is projecting onto you. You, in turn, feel the responsibility and weight of the tie. You’ll always know Joanne.
Your Asc. Conj Joanne’s Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)
Yours is a comfortable relationship in that you both share many personal views and attitudes and your personalities are pleasantly compatible. You enjoy doing many of the same sort of things and most people agree that you look well together and get on well.
Your Mercury Oppos Joanne’s Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne has an odd effect on you and can almost magnetically draw you into another perspective and influence your ideas and opinions almost without your realizing it. In head-to-head confrontations, you tend to defer to Joanne’s authority.
Your Venus Oppos Joanne’s Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne holds a special fascination for you. The bond between you might be somewhat obsessive. Joanne often exerts an influence over you others may find difficult to understand. This relationship can transform the way you love and relate the rest of your life.
Your Asc. Oppos Joanne’s Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
This is a compulsive tie. A relationship like this will either be very intense and very binding or will simply not exist. Joanne projects powerful images onto you which, unconsciously, Joanne may fear and need to control. This can lead to subtle power struggles.
Your Mercury Square Joanne’s Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne is stimulating and unusual but sometimes you find this unconventionality a bit too outrageous, if not actually irritating. You find yourself continually surprised by what Joanne says - and not always pleasantly. Discussions often make you tense.
Your Venus Square Joanne’s Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
You were attracted immediately. There was something unique about Joanne which caught your attention. You sensed a special insight into your deepest-felt values and this inspired in you feelings of warmth. You may share unusual or advanced interests.
Your Asc. Square Joanne’s Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
You responded to Joanne’s magnetism from the first time you met. You find it interesting and unusual. Joanne enjoys being with you because you respond to uniqueness. You don’t like not being able to depend on someone and often find Joanne’s behavior unpredictable.
Your Sun Trine Joanne’s Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne has a calming effect upon you. When you are together, you feel wonderful. Joanne gives you the confidence to grow and expand and may be quite helpful to you in material ways by opening doors and providing opportunities.
Your Moon Trine Joanne’s MC (orb 1-5 deg)
You intuitively understand Joanne’s dreams and ambitions and the emotional support you provide plays an important role in Joanne’s achievements. Joanne respects and admires you, depends on you and may unconsciously be seeking your approval when seeking success.
Your MC Trine Joanne’s Venus (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne is attracted to your social or public image even though it isn’t entirely congruous with personal values and tastes. Sometimes you may feel that Joanne’s values and affectional needs may make achieving your personal goals somewhat more complicated.
Your Sun Sextile Joanne’s Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
You may have met in a group situation and the basis of the strong mutual attraction was the unusual interests you share. You enjoy Joanne’s independence. It stimulates you to act on your own uniqueness, knowing you have the support of an admired friend.
Your Venus Sextile Joanne’s Venus (orb 1-5 deg)
You express love and affection in similar ways which enables you to understand each other with a special intimacy. You also share the same tastes and values and enjoy many of the same things and people. Others enjoy being in your company at social functions.
Your Mars Sextile Joanne’s Moon (orb 1-5 deg)
You respond to Joanne’s emotionalism and sensitivity and you give the encouragement to do what is needed to succeed. Yours is a lively relationship and will always do best when you are both embroiled in some sort of activity of mutual interest.
Your MC Sextile Joanne’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
Joanne may help you to crystallize and work hard toward your goals and ambitions and, at the same time, be so controlling and demanding that you may question whose goals you are working to achieve. Joanne constantly brings up issues of responsibilities.
Your Sun Quincunx Joanne’s Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)
There is a strong element of fantasy and idealization in this relationship and it is important to make sure that the person you think is so wonderful is really the person before you. Clarity is not the key word here. There is a lovely sense of Shangri-la.
Your Sun does not aspect Joanne’s Moon
While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Joanne doesn’t really understand you. You may find Joanne’s emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.
Your Moon does not aspect Joanne’s Moon
While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other’s moods or responses puzzling.
Your Mercury does not aspect Joanne’s Mercury
You don’t think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, While your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.
Joanne’s Sun in your 2nd house:
You are oddly possessive of Joanne and have a special need to be reassured that you are needed and that your emotional tie is secure. Shared values are an important aspect of your relationship. In addition, Joanne has a special appreciation of your talent.
On a more material level, this could be a very good relationship as Joanne could have a strong positive effect upon your financial status and might also be quite generous with gifts - possibly in an attempt to have more leverage over you and your resources.
Joanne’s Moon in your 1st house:
From the very beginning, perhaps before you were formally introduced there was an unspoken understanding between you. Joanne was intuitively drawn to you as one who personified an inner sense of self and who provided an instant sense of comfort .
You like being around someone whose emotional nature harmonizes so well with your personality. Your relationship has always been marked by a special intimacy and familiarity. Sometimes Joanne may look to you for an emotional security you can’t provide.
Joanne’s Mercury in your 1st house:
You connect wonderfully on an intellectual level. Joanne can talk to you feeling you would not only understand the ideas expressed but could help to actualize them as well. You sense this too and enjoy the long discussions through which you both benefit.
This would also be a great professional relationship because of the excellent communications between you. You respond to Joanne’s ideas and Joanne would profit from your counseling or advice. You share many interests and probably do a lot of letter writing.
Joanne’s Venus in your 2nd house:
The genuine love and affection Joanne feels for you encourages you to develop your talents and resources to a point where your financial situation will increase significantly. You, in turn, admire Joanne’s creativity and may contribute to its development.
The two of you are fond of exchanging gifts. Joanne has given you some beautiful and, perhaps, costly things which you treasure. You not only reciprocate, you also exchange gifts of deeply personal significance which are expressive of your warm affection.
Joanne’s Mars in your 1st house:
Joanne’s energy really affects you. It can stimulate in you tremendous enthusiasm, competitiveness, irritation or sexual desire. Certainly you are neither placid nor indifferent when you are together. If you were, Joanne might decide to stir things up.
It would be a good thing for your relationship if you were physically active together. If circumstances prevent this, the energy could become destructive and manifest in quarreling or competitiveness. If it manifested in aggressiveness, it might be that Joanne is a bit afraid of you.
Joanne’s Jupiter in your 5th house:
You enjoy being together so much that sometimes it’s hard to get any work done. The two of you may also go overboard on pleasure activities at the expense of other responsibilities and find you are spending more money and time than you had earlier planned.
Be that as it may, you share many happy times together and this is a very loving relationship. Joanne may encourage an artistic or cultural pursuit of yours and generally appears to admire your creativity. If you have children, they would love Joanne and Joanne would love them.
Joanne’s Saturn in your 12th house:
It’s going to be necessary for you to be assertive with Joanne even though it will probably be difficult for you. You may find yourself in a situation where Joanne is not meeting your needs but you are so afraid to lose the relationship, you’ll just suffer in silence.
It’s sometimes hard to define the anxieties that Joanne’s presence in your life evokes. It almost seems to arise from a distant past you can’t quite recall. Joanne can depend on you to the point of being a burden. You often feel trapped by this relationship.
Joanne’s Uranus in your 3rd house:
Somehow Joanne’s presence seems to alter your environment. This may manifest in the actual changes in your day-to-day routine which can be innovative or disruptive or both. It can also manifest in the excitement Joanne adds to the atmosphere.
If you write or are involved in anything related to education or communications, Joanne can stimulate you to do some of your best work and encourage you to express your most original ideas. Joanne challenges you to observe things with a fresh eye.
Joanne’s Neptune in your 8th house:
There is such a depth of sharing of spiritual values, it’s difficult to remember where your original ideas end and Joanne’s begin. You love to share dreams and confidences and it is during those quiet moments that you feel most intimate.
For you, Joanne’s sexuality and spirituality are very closely linked which gives rise to a delightful sense of being all alone together on Shangri-la. However, there is something elusive about your relationship. No matter how close you are, Joanne still retains his/her mystery.
Joanne’s Pluto in your 7th house:
Joanne has a magnetic quality and your association has utterly transformed your life. You were so compulsively drawn to Joanne from the very beginning, resistance would have been difficult. You’re forced to examine your own most intense feelings.
It is important for this relationship to maintain a reasonable balance of power. If Joanne’s strong need to dominate is unchallenged, you will withdraw in a subtle way and a relationship which could be unusually intimate could become a den of manipulation.
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SECTION IV:Â The Relationship from Joanne’s Point of View
Joanne, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Paul, and explores some of the major issues that arise.
Your Asc. Oppos Paul’s Pluto (orb < 1 deg)
This is a compulsive tie. A relationship like this will either be very intense and very binding or will simply not exist. Paul projects powerful images onto you which, unconsciously, Paul may fear and need to control. This can lead to subtle power struggles.
Your Mercury Square Paul’s Saturn (orb < 1 deg)
Paul tends to intimidate you and you don’t like to express ideas which are in disagreement. Even when you know you are right, you wind up feeling wrong. You often feel that Paul misinterprets your ideas and doesn’t understand you.
Your Sun Trine Paul’s MC (orb < 1 deg)
You may have initially been more influenced by Paul’s public image than more intimate persona. Paul appears to admire you greatly and you respond to that by taking a great interest in the goals and ambitions to which both of you aspire.
Your Venus Trine Paul’s Saturn (orb < 1 deg)
This is a serious relationship. Paul inspires in you the kind of love and respect which makes you want to live up to the standards you both share. This could never be just a casual love affair. It either becomes committed or it ends. You admire strength.
Your Sun Sextile Paul’s Jupiter (orb < 1 deg)
Paul has a calming effect upon you. When you are together, you feel wonderful. Paul gives you the confidence to grow and expand and may be quite helpful to you in material ways by opening doors and providing opportunities.
Your Venus Sextile Paul’s Mercury (orb < 1 deg)
You love the way Paul thinks and speaks. Perhaps the initial attraction began with long talks of shared interests and values. You also enjoy the way Paul appreciates your values, shares your sense of the beautiful and expresses love.
Your Venus Sextile Paul’s Asc. (orb < 1 deg)
There is something about the way Paul looks and behaves which charms and captivates you. You were attracted from the first meeting. Perhaps you even fell in love a little. Paul may represent a private fantasy.
Your Sun SemiSqr Paul’s Mars (orb < 1 deg)
Paul arouses in you either love or hate - nothing lukewarm here. There is a strong underlying sexual energy and if circumstances make this inappropriate, it may manifest in competitiveness or quarreling. Here is someone who really challenges you.
Your Asc. Conj Paul’s Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)
There is something about your persona which gives Paul a sense that you would be a good person to talk to because you relate well to others’ ideas. This is true. The intellectual tie between you transcends disagreements and creates understandings.
Your Asc. Conj Paul’s Venus (orb 1-5 deg)
The attraction between the two of you is very powerful. Your physical being personifies all that Paul finds most attractive and you feel Paul’s warmth, sensuality and affection in a very palpable way. You find the same things - and each other - beautiful.
Your Asc. Conj Paul’s Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)
Paul makes you feel wonderful when you are alone together. Yours is, at the very least, a lovely friendship. This would also be a good working relationship. You are helpful to Paul. Sometimes one of you encourages the other to take irresponsible chances.
Your Asc. Conj Paul’s Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)
Yours is a comfortable relationship in that you both share many personal views and attitudes and your personalities are pleasantly compatible. You enjoy doing many of the same sort of things and most people agree that you look well together and get on well.
Your Moon Oppos Paul’s Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)
Watch out for illusion. You have a tendency to over romanticize and idealize Paul. The truth is you don’t see each other very clearly. Emotionally, you may find this relationship quite confusing. Try not to be vulnerable to deception or flattery.
Your Mars Square Paul’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
On one level Paul fascinates you and motivates you to be the best that you can be. On another, there is something about Paul which pressures you somehow and can lead to resentment. If this is not dealt with openly, it can inhibit sexual responsiveness.
Your Sun Trine Paul’s Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Paul exerts an odd influence over you which enables you to get in touch with your own deepest needs and strengths. You find Paul fascinating and almost enjoy the sense of being manipulated which is certainly not true of your relationship with others.
Your Venus Trine Paul’s Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Paul holds a special fascination for you. The bond between you might be somewhat obsessive. Paul often exerts an influence over you others may find difficult to understand. This relationship can transform the way you love and relate the rest of your life.
Your Venus Trine Paul’s MC (orb 1-5 deg)
We all have fantasies about the sort of person who would be an ideal partner. When you first met Paul, it was like a recognition. You felt oddly at home with someone you idealized. Happily, Paul reciprocates these feelings.
Your MC Trine Paul’s Moon (orb 1-5 deg)
Paul always had an intuitive sense of your deepest yearnings, ambitions and goals and that strong emotional support has done much to point you in your life direction. Paul is very proud of your successes but hopes they won’t overshadow the more intimate aspects of the relationship.
Your Moon Sextile Paul’s Mars (orb 1-5 deg)
You have fun together and may enjoy teasing each other in a good-natured way. This relationship works best when you’re both active and one of you always seems to be encouraging or stimulating the other. There may also be a very strong sexual attraction here.
Your Venus Sextile Paul’s Venus (orb 1-5 deg)
You express love and affection in similar ways which enables you to understand each other with a special intimacy. You also share the same tastes and values and enjoy many of the same things and people. Others enjoy being in your company at social functions.
Your Venus Sextile Paul’s Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)
The affection and good feeling you share are so strong, you are inclined to share projects and activities which will be lucky and fulfilling for you both. Paul’s kindness and generosity expands your feelings and your love inspires Paul to be successful.
Your Asc. Sextile Paul’s Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
This could never be a casual relationship. Paul may grant you a certain authority while unconsciously resenting the very parenting role Paul is projecting onto you. You, in turn, feel the responsibility and weight of the tie. You’ll always know Paul.
Your Moon SemiSqr Paul’s Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)
You often come away from discussions with Paul feeling kind of irritated. You’ve made your point and Paul replied but somehow there’s been no connection. The logic is there but not the understanding. You probably shouldn’t work together.
Your Moon SemiSqr Paul’s Venus (orb 1-5 deg)
No matter how long you’ve been together, there’s something about this relationship which prevents you from feeling entirely secure or truly loved. Paul doesn’t always make you feel good about being who you are.
Your Moon SemiSqr Paul’s Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)
There is something about Paul’s basic philosophy or world view which throws you somewhat off-center emotionally. You may often find yourself caught up by Paul’s enthusiasm or going along with things which are not truly representative of your own feelings.
Your Sun does not aspect Paul’s Moon
While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Paul doesn’t really understand you. You may find Paul’s emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.
Your Moon does not aspect Paul’s Moon
While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other’s moods or responses puzzling.
Your Mercury does not aspect Paul’s Mercury
You don’t think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, While your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.
Your Mercury does not aspect Paul’s Venus
There is something about Paul’s personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn’t comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren’t quite in sync.
Paul’s Sun in your 1st house:
The attraction between the two of you was powerful, dynamic and mutual from the very beginning. Paul immediately recognized you as a kindred spirit and instinctively gravitated toward you. You strongly respond to the dynamic energy of Paul’s personality.
You are so affected by Paul’s presence that sometimes you may find yourself deferring to needs or expectations sensed but not actually expressed. Paul, in turn, identifies strongly with you, loves the intimacy of shared perceptions and feels reinforced and validated by your presence.
Paul’s Moon in your 2nd house:
Paul has always related intuitively to your creative and material resources and has had a remarkable effect upon the development of those resources as well as your financial status. Paul also has a knack for selecting the perfect gift.
Your relationship may be so intense that you have become quite possessive and may tend to lavish gifts and money upon Paul as a means of manipulation in order to foster a need which mirrors your own. Paul makes you feel vulnerable.
Paul’s Mercury in your 1st house:
You connect wonderfully on an intellectual level. Paul can talk to you feeling you would not only understand the ideas expressed but could help to actualize them as well. You sense this too and enjoy the long discussions through which you both benefit.
This would also be a great professional relationship because of the excellent communications between you. You respond to Paul’s ideas and Paul would profit from your counseling or advice. You share many interests and probably do a lot of letter writing.
Paul’s Venus in your 1st house:
You love being with Paul. It makes you feel loved, attractive, valued and wonderful. Happily, your presence has the same effect and the pleasure of being together is quite mutual although Paul was probably attracted before you were.
If either of you is creative, this relationship will be helpful because it encourages you to be the best that you can be and your very presence gives Paul the confidence to experiment with less caution. This tie is marked by affection and shared values.
Paul’s Mars in your 3rd house:
Something about Paul’s style of expression really makes you sit up straight. Whether it’s something that is said or even something in writing, the point is made with a directness at times so startling you’re not always sure how to respond.
Occasionally, Paul can be disruptive of your normal routine. These changes can be productive, although at first you might feel irritated by them. There might not always be harmony with the people in your daily world which can create tension. Does Paul like to quarrel?
Paul’s Jupiter in your 12th house:
When you are hurting or in trouble, this relationship can help you in a very special way. It is as though Paul can intuit sources of anxiety you yourself may not be aware of. You feel better not because of Paul’s advice but by an unconsciously exuded energy.
If you have a weakness or bad habit you’d like to overcome, Paul’s presence may bring it to the surface and make it difficult to resist the temptation of “just one more time.” It becomes hard to set limits. Paul makes them seem almost unnecessary.
Paul’s Saturn in your 10th house:
While it is true that you may establish your career and your reputation during your association with Paul, it may be despite this influence rather than because of it. Paul is simultaneously both proud and threatened by your success.
Whatever the reality of your respective positions, you defer to hPaul’s authority and value Paul’s approval. Frequently that approval is withheld and you can be very sensitive to criticism. However, Paul can be helpful to you in clarifying your goals.
Paul’s Uranus in your 2nd house:
If you are looking for new and unusual ways to spend your money, stick with Paul who will have no problem coming up with something. If a stable financial situation is important to you, you may have to rethink this relationship and its volatile effects.
On the other hand, if you are looking for new and unusual ways to earn money, you should also stick with Paul whose originality and inventiveness and can stimulate you to add to your resources in ways which you wouldn’t have thought of independently.
Paul’s Neptune in your 8th house:
There is such a depth of sharing of spiritual values, it’s difficult to remember where your original ideas end and Paul’s begin. You love to share dreams and confidences and it is during those quiet moments that you feel most intimate.
For you, Paul’s sexuality and spirituality are very closely linked which gives rise to a delightful sense of being all alone together on Shangri-la. However, there is something elusive about your relationship. No matter how close you are, Paul still retains his/her mystery.
Paul’s Pluto in your 7th house:
Paul has a magnetic quality and your association has utterly transformed your life. You were so compulsively drawn to Paul from the very beginning, resistance would have been difficult. You’re forced to examine your own most intense feelings.
It is important for this relationship to maintain a reasonable balance of power. If Paul’s strong need to dominate is unchallenged, you will withdraw in a subtle way and a relationship which could be unusually intimate could become a den of manipulation.
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